From DNA to New Cousins & Ancestry

The back of a Cornflakes box is a good deal more absorbing than another person’s family tree. Genealogy is a rather personal game of history. Our interest seems to gain momentum with age, which may unfortunately mean we are too late for an older generation to explain gaps in our family history.

Surveys show the majority don’t know or remember or care about the names of our great grandparents or further back; perhaps we need to put a face on an ancestor for a name to mean something. As one of that majority, I knew little about my background or where my ancestors lived and are buried. But searching for records through online ancestry services and discovering remote cousins using DNA hooked me in a way that poring over parish records or deciphering gravestones never could. Technology is making genealogy into a new craze and for absorbing TV, like Finding Your Roots and Who Do You Think You Are? This post is mainly for people who want to dig up their ancestors but haven’t yet gotten started. It won’t say much about my family tree (I promise), but aims to convey what I found interesting or worrying after enrolling in Ancestry, 23andme, and Family Tree DNA. Yes, I signed up for all three because they are not exactly the same services, and I wanted to check if results were the same.

After paying the one-off sign-up fee or subscription, each company mails the customer a specimen pack to be returned with a cheek swab or spittle sample for DNA analysis. You have the option of contributing your data to the company’s genetic diversity studies (I did) and keeping your data private from other subscribers (I didn’t because I wanted unknown relatives to find me). A few weeks later an email announces your results are ready for perusal online.

If asked, I would probably say ethnicity doesn’t matter a whole lot to me. That sounds virtuous, doesn’t it, but I admit it was the first result I checked, along with predictions of my physical characteristics. Perhaps deep down there was a sliver of anxiety in case I was never told my full story, but DNA would be truthful. The data showed I am 98% Northern European. It predicted brown eyes, undetached earlobes, no cleft in my chin or wet earwax, and that I can smell sulfurous metabolites in my urine after eating asparagus. I didn’t need to spend a hundred bucks to learn what I already knew, but these confirmations gave me confidence in the other results.

Aside from 263 genetic variants handed down from my Neanderthal ancestors (blogpost of November 18, 2014), I found the mix of European origins that made me was rather interesting. I am like one of my mother’s cake recipes, made of every kind of fruit and nut plus a smack of Oriental spice. That’s common for Brits. I have an admixture of DNA from the British Isles and Ireland, a fair amount from Scandinavia (those Vikings and Danes), a little Western European (French and German), and a dab of Southern European (2%) and Middle Eastern, probably Ashkenazi Jewish (<2%).

Map my origins
Map my origins

Although all three tests confirmed European ancestry (98-100%), there was a lot of variation within that category, especially for the British Isles (14/52/69%) and Scandinavia (6/7/27%). The differences definitely reflected the haplotypes selected for testing by the companies, but also perhaps the definition of what a national origin means. It’s hard to define what it takes to be 100% “British.” Would that imply an ancestry strictly prior to the Norman Conquest (not much French), or before the Scandinavian and Saxon invasions (no Norwegian, Swedish, Danish or German heritage), or afore the Roman Conquest (no Italians or their allies)? If so, only an Ancient Briton or Celt would qualify, and I very much doubt any exist today. Besides, a strict definition might exclude that most glorious “English” king, Alfred. The companies are silent on this question, so you can choose what you want to think. If your roots are in America, north or south, you will probably have an even larger smorgasbord of origins. Congratulations!

A mixed origin is biologically reassuring and makes nonsense of some kinds of ethnic pride. There was a time and place in history when ethnicity was undiluted by recent immigration, but hard to find today.

Mum_and_Dad_headstone_1Ancestry research using DNA is greatly helped if you have data from both parents, although even if they are not available your own results can say something about their backgrounds. The mitochondrial genome is a tiny ring of DNA inherited from our mothers, and we share it with our brothers and sisters. My maternal haplogroup is K1a11 which originates in the Middle East and traveled to Europe through the relatives of Otzi the Ice Man. My brothers and I inherit our father’s haplogroup I1 from his Y chromosome, which is common in Scandinavia. None of us is blond and blue-eyed, and none have the financial sagacity of Warren Buffett who has the same haplotype. It’s not surprising.

Genetics is not destiny, not really. Scientific or artistic genius very rarely run in families, and hardly ever more than two generations. And consider Bill Maher and Bill O’Reilly, one a leftish political satirist and the other a host on Fox News Channel. They are at opposite poles of the political spectrum, yet have a common Irish ancestor way back. No surprise there either, but I digress.

The longer you are an active subscriber to a genealogical service the more information that rolls in because other people join and some become sharers. If you go public with data, you will soon see your DNA matching other people’s and learn the strength of the match (%) and the corresponding segments (in cM). Your parent or child should of course have a 50% DNA match with you, but after gaining that reassurance it’s most interesting to scroll through the lower entries. There are likely to be hundreds of other matches in descending order of relatedness. Some of them provide a picture and short bio, and even an email for contacting them, but most on your list are likely to be anonymous or never reply to your inquiries. I suspect they don’t have anything to hide: they enrolled mainly for the health data that can be downloaded (next post) or never return to the page for updating DNA relatives.

You will undoubtedly have some surprises. For me it was the large number of American matches, more than any other nationality, because I had no idea about any ancestors migrating ahead of me. As for the British people expected to be on my list, perhaps they are more wary of sharing details in case they reach a nosy government or genetic stalkers.

My wife had the happy discovery of an unknown third cousin through a DNA match. She lives only an hour away from us and owns property that their common ancestor farmed in the early days of Colonial America. She is a super cousin because they share over 1% of their DNA, meaning they might be doubly descended from their ancestor. Lucinda is also distantly related to her daughter-in-law’s family. My surprise was to find my wife’s half-sister and brothers in Texas are my remote cousins, probably through an Irish ancestor I never knew about.

You have to be ready for a jolt when you delve into history, and I’m still waiting for one. Luckily, I haven’t found any felons or slave-owners in my family tree, nor relatives of that man with a black toothbrush mustache who died in 1945. Phew! But be prepared to hear from people trying to find living relatives. Two women who were adopted as children have contacted me, but I couldn’t give them any leads to a living parent or sibling because we are too distantly related. Another contact has been trying to establish a link between us and a billionaire hedge-fund owner; thankfully, that inquiry has gone silent. No doubt some people have used these services instead of standard paternity testing, and I have reason to believe an oral sample doesn’t need as much scrubbing as the instructions recommend. Padlock your toothbrush if that worries you.

Besides filling the missing names on a family tree, tracing ancestors back for say seven generations to the 17th century reveals many interesting details and documents. For example, registrations of births, marriages and deaths, military records, census data, ocean crossings and immigration data, not to mention convictions for felonies, are represented online from scanning of original documents. Perusing these materials was a moving experience because it personalized those who had contributed to my existence by revealing the little details I would never have known otherwise. There is a risk, however, that family stories that have grown fonder in the telling through the generations can turn out to be flawed or fanciful, so prepare for dissonant emotions.

One person who contacted me was searching for a royal connection, so I was glad I couldn’t help her. She left me wondering why anyone wants to be connected to a lineage that is marred by an unhealthy degree of inbreeding in the past. Remember hemophilia was passed down by Victoria, and the famous jaw of the Royal House of Habsburg? European royal families constantly intermarried. Queen Victoria married her first cousin, Prince Albert of Saxe-Coburg, an admirable and brilliant man whom anyone would be proud to call a relative. But whatever parts of the genome contributing to his gifts (probably minor) were mixed and diluted in the following generations. A dynasty endures through its heirs, but not by passing down a founder’s peculiar genetic merits.

Lastly, I was musing about King Richard III, the last of the Plantagenet kings of England who was killed at the Battle of Bosworth Field in 1485. The grave was excavated in a Leicester carpark in 2013 and his identity was confirmed from DNA and spinal curvature. Ricardians strive to repair his reputation brought down by Shakespeare, and in some circles there is a cachet if you can prove descent from Good King Richard.

Think about it. He lived over 21 generations ago. If you can trace your branches back to the trunk that connects to his close relatives (he had no children) you have a claim to the Plantagenet crown, but it’s vanishingly slender. DNA is diluted by half at every new generation, so if we assume no interference by intermarriage or asymmetric recombination or medieval milkman (some assumptions!), you share 221 of his DNA, or less than one part in a million. It is meaningless to feel honored by descent from some bigwig if he or she is that remote. But there is a wonderful conclusion here: ancestry research reminds us we are all connected, and if we need to boast we can all claim a relationship to our greatest heroes in history. It’s all a matter of degree, because we are all cousins.

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